Road trip: How to make the most of campus visits

When planning your campus visits for spring break, don’t fall into the overbooked trap of “If it’s Tuesday it must be Tulane.” Overscheduling fosters frayed nerves and in the end, a far less productive trip.
To get the most bang for their buck, families typically try to squeeze in visiting as many colleges as possible. These [...]

When planning your campus visits for spring break, don’t fall into the overbooked trap of “If it’s Tuesday it must be Tulane.” Overscheduling fosters frayed nerves and in the end, a far less productive trip.

To get the most bang for their buck, families typically try to squeeze in visiting as many colleges as possible. These whirlwind mega-tours are not nearly as beneficial as a few well-designed visits where students and parents walk away from a campus really feeling like they know what makes it tick and, more importantly, what sets it apart.

When faced with planning these trips, I often tell families that it is worth investing more than just two hours of your time at each college. The typical college visit includes a campus tour (1 hour) and an information session (1 hour). After all, this might be the place where your son or daughter spends the next four years of their life.

Here are a few suggestions for making the most of a college visit. Next week I will wrap up with more tips.

Prepare. Do your homework and find out what’s happening on campus. What specialized programs do they have? Any new majors added? these days, it is important to see if they have eliminated any majors due to budget cuts. Doing your research will help you identify good questions to ask.

Avoid assumptions. It’s almost impossible not to have preconceived notions about individual colleges, but students and parents should try to approach each campus objectively. It is always refreshing when I hear back from a student who says, “I didn’t really even want to visit there because I had heard that the students were mostly preppy northerners, but everyone we talked to was so nice. It’s now my first choice!”

Seek consistency. Ask the same questions to a variety of people – students, admissions representatives and faculty. Make sure you go beyond the campus sound bites and the glossy pictures.

More Information
College planning workshop
When: March 20, 8 a.m.-12:45 p.m., UNC Charlotte.
What: Free program sponsored by the Southern Association of College Admission Counseling. Workshop is for students and parents to learn about the key aspects of the college search and admissions process. Presenters will be college admissions officers and experienced school counselors.
Topics: Application process, the scholarship and financial aid process, standardized test options and much more. Register at www.sacac.org and look for Mini-Camp College.

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Parents have several roles on campus visits

It’s almost time for spring break season. For many high school juniors that will mean loading up the minivan and heading out to visit college campuses.
Many families believe in empowering their high school students during the college admissions process. However, the campus visit planning, often brimming with travel logistics, frequently lands on the parent. So, [...]

It’s almost time for spring break season. For many high school juniors that will mean loading up the minivan and heading out to visit college campuses.

Many families believe in empowering their high school students during the college admissions process. However, the campus visit planning, often brimming with travel logistics, frequently lands on the parent. So, besides Mapquesting directions from one college to another, what is the most productive role for parents while visiting colleges?

Parents should avoid both extremes; the stereotypical embarrassing, overbearing, constant question-asking parent and the laid-back, drop you at the front gate, call me when you’re done parent. Practical pointers:

Pre-visit: Make travel arrangements with plenty of cushion-time to allow for a meal on campus, the possibility of sitting in on a class, visiting the campus bookstore and meeting up with current students your child knows. Parents should set the tone for the trek prior to the departure. Make the car or plane ride fun; don’t dominate the conversation with “Don’t forget to ask….” suggestions. Instead, try to use the time to share your own recollections of college life at least the ones you want to share. Many families have returned from campus visits with a revitalized relationship with their teens.

During the visit: Divide and conquer. Parents should focus on admissions statistics, finances and security, and students should approach the visit from an experiential point of view, i.e., academic choices, dorms, social life and dining options.

Strike up conversations with current students. Eat lunch in the dining hall and observe. Do students seem happy/friendly? Are the students the kind of people you’d like to get to know? Would you like to spend more time there, etc.?

Check out the bulletin boards, college newspaper and listen to the radio station.

Visit the fitness center, student union and library. Do they meet your needs?

Take some time to explore the campus on your own, without a tour guide.

Snap photos and jot down notes, particularly if visiting multiple schools on the same trip.

Attend a class or meet with a professor.

Visit the surrounding downtown area where students will go for off-campus entertainment and shopping.

Post-visit: Allow your student to set the tone for sharing feedback. They may love it or hate it, and their opinions may gush before leaving the parking lot, or they may need some processing time.

Bierer is an independent college adviser based in Charlotte. www.collegeadmissionsstrategies.com.

 

Check out these online aid resources

So you think just the neediest kids, the brainiacs and the jocks receive all the scholarship money?
Wrong. “What most families don’t realize is that the most aid – whether it be in grants, scholarships or loans – goes to those who are savviest about applying for it,” says Kalman Chany, author of “Paying for College [...]

So you think just the neediest kids, the brainiacs and the jocks receive all the scholarship money?

Wrong. “What most families don’t realize is that the most aid – whether it be in grants, scholarships or loans – goes to those who are savviest about applying for it,” says Kalman Chany, author of “Paying for College Without Going Broke.”

Many families rely solely on the generosity of the financial aid office and are often disappointed with what they are offered.

What many parents fail to understand is that while their relationship with a financial aid office is not inherently an adversarial one, the administrators do receive their paychecks from the college. Their job is to share the resources of the university with the most sought-after students.

For the last two decades college costs have risen at nearly three times the rate of inflation. “Colleges have been sitting in a supply-and-demand sweet spot and have not been punished for raising their prices,” says Lynn O’Shaughnessy, author of “The College Solution.”

In fact, some colleges have recently raised their tuition to be in line with their closest competitors, based on the perception that families felt that a more expensive college provides a better education.

Parents are often at a loss for how to assist their high school seniors during the admissions process. While counselors and admissions officials agree that it is inappropriate for parents to be overly involved with college applications, it is fine for mom and dad to take the lead in the scholarship search.

Some great resources:

www.Fastweb.com. This is a great site to start the process. It is free, easy and user-friendly and once you register you will receive-mails with scholarships that match your criteria.

www.finaid.com. Provides a great overview of scholarships, loans, grants and even military aid. The site provides financial aid applications, financial aid calculators and great instructions on filling out the FAFSA (Free Applications for Federal Student Aid). There is also a section where you can “Ask the Advisor” and receive personalized help.

www.collegeispossible.org. This is a great site to get introduced to what financial aid is all about. There is information on determining financial aid packages, descriptions of different grant, loan and Federal programs as well as an area on tax benefits.

www.collegeinvest.org. This site offers a free downloadable scholarship workbook with checklists and to-do lists.

www.salliemae.com. A for-profit organization, SallieMae is a highly reputable company with some great resources.

Lee Bierer is an independent college counselor in Charlotte, North Carolina. Send questions to: lee@collegeadmissionsstrategies.com, www.collegeadmissionsstrategies.com

 

How to handle being deferred

Being deferred is NOT the same as being rejected. It may feel that way for students, but this year, with a record number of early applications, there has also been a record number of deferrals.
A student who applies through early action or early decision is deferred when a college determines that the student has potential [...]

Being deferred is NOT the same as being rejected. It may feel that way for students, but this year, with a record number of early applications, there has also been a record number of deferrals.

A student who applies through early action or early decision is deferred when a college determines that the student has potential but they want to see first-semester senior grades.

So being deferred gives a student a second chance to impress the admissions office.

So how should a student respond to a deferral?

Visit the college. Even if you have visited, a follow-up visit where you sit in on a class and/or meet with someone from admissions can set you apart from other applicants.

Contact your admissions representative. Find out which person in the admissions office handles your geographic territory. Take the opportunity to introduce yourself via e-mail and ask that person if they can share any thoughts on how you could improve your application. Listen to what they say – don’t argue or complain. It is important to be upbeat and leave a positive impression.

Write a letter. Send it to the Director of Admissions and your admissions representative. Focus on your strongest attributes and how you will be able to contribute to the college community. Demonstrate your interest and your commitment. If you are 100 percent sure that if you are accepted you will attend, then say so.

Talk about college fit; why the college is a good fit for you and why you are a good fit for the college. Use the letter to update the admissions office on any new information such as leadership roles, awards, scholarships, etc.

Send your midyear transcript. Most colleges will specifically request that you send your seventh-semester grades. Follow instructions to the letter and get it done quickly.

What not to do:

Whine and complain to the Admissions Office that you deserve to be accepted.

Send volumes of e-mails, snail mail or packages hoping to change their minds.

Accuse the admissions office of making a mistake in their decision.

Compare your SAT scores and GPA with someone else’s.

Boast about small accomplishments. It is not really worth it to share that your SAT score went up 10 points.

Lee Bierer is an independent college adviser based in Charlotte.
E-mail Lee Bierer at: lee@collegeadmissionsstrategies.com
Website: www.collegeadmissionsstrategies.com

 

Is it OK to drop a high school course?

It seems once a senior clears the first semester hurdle, they think the rest of the year is downhill and colleges don’t care about what they do. Little could be further from the truth.
Many parents have contacted me seeking approval for their child to drop a course midyear. They are not sure if it is [...]

It seems once a senior clears the first semester hurdle, they think the rest of the year is downhill and colleges don’t care about what they do. Little could be further from the truth.

Many parents have contacted me seeking approval for their child to drop a course midyear. They are not sure if it is okay, but their high schooler has tried to convince them that colleges won’t see their grades and it doesn’t matter.

Colleges will not see their final grades before the admissions decision is made, but most colleges will request an end-of-year transcript and a dropped course will be noted and may raise concerns.

Guidance counselors, with good reason, are vehemently against dropping courses. Some schools even require parents and students to sign a letter acknowledging the risk they are taking related to college admission.

Some students try to get creative and suggest substituting an online course instead of the one offered at their high school and this too is not looked upon favorably. According to Brown University, “The very fact that they want to take it online instead will raise eyebrows. If they are taking it anyway, why don’t they just stay in class? If there is a scheduling conflict with another advanced course and the school endorses the change for that reason, then we’ll accept that, but if they are simply substituting an online option for an in-class option, we will be less understanding.”

Colleges look at the transcript as a predictor of future performance based on the rigor of the courses taken. If colleges find out that students have dropped classes after they were admitted, it could be considered grounds for revoking the offer of admission. The bait-and-switch plan of signing up for a rigorous course and then dropping it after first semester is not worth the risk.

I checked out what College Confidential ( www.collegeconfidential .com ) had to say. CC is a great Web site with an online forum where students and parents ask questions and share information. Here’s what I found:

Question: I’m thinking about dropping a course so that I could have more time to concentrate on my more important AP courses. Do you think that doing so will have adverse effects on my acceptances? Could they revoke my admissions offer?

Answer: It may. What might happen is that you may not be told you got rescinded for dropping until late fall, too late to do anything. A friend dropped a class senior year and was told not to come to college the week before she was to start classes. It took that long for Admissions to review her final high school transcript and then they yanked her, a cautionary tale.

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