Lee Bierer - Nationally Syndicated Columnist and Independent College Counselor.

Getting great reference letters

Letters of recommendation will never be the most important component of a student’s college application folder, but they can be a tipping factor.

Think about it. If two students have similar stats, i.e., they have taken the same kinds of courses and their standardized test scores are in the same range, and the college feels forced to choose between them, then recommendations, as well as the essays play a role.

Imagine reading an impressive recommendation that goes something like this:

“Robert is curious. He is one of my strongest students who consistently questions what we’re reading and discussing. Additionally, he is also one of the most easily recognizable leaders on our campus. Robert is modest and seeks to make a difference in the lives of the people around him and he does so without requiring the spotlight. ”

Now imagine reading a lackluster letter like this. “Daria is hard-working and seems to get along well with her peers. She hasn’t missed a class or failed to turn in an assignment. She is very reliable.”

Which student would you choose? It’s an easy hands-down for Robert. The teacher added context and took the time to make the reference personal and not generic. The reference for Daria is weak and unimpressive at best.

So how does a student get started on this process?

•  Be prepared. Put together a brag sheet that details what you’ve been doing outside the classroom. Focus on extracurricular activities, community service, employment, summer activities, internships/job-shadowing experiences and any honors, scholarships or awards received. Edit it down to one page if possible, but two pages maximum. Have someone else review it and proof it carefully.

•  Get organized. Talk with your guidance counselor so you understand how your high school handles teacher and counselor recommendations. Many high schools have software programs such as Naviance that send the recommendations electronically to colleges. But you need to know your school’s policy and timing.

 More Information    — N.C. College Application Week

North Carolina College Application Week is Nov. 12-16. During this statewide event, all 110 North Carolina colleges and universities accept the College Board fee waiver in lieu of an application fee for students who qualify. Typically students who receive the SAT or ACT fee waiver also qualify for the College Board fee waiver. See your high school counselor for information.

Read more here: http://www.charlotteobserver.com/2012/10/30/3630593/how-to-get-great-reference-letters.html#storylink=cpy

Next week: Choosing whom to ask.

Read more here: http://www.charlotteobserver.com/2012/10/30/3630593/how-to-get-great-reference-letters.html#storylink=cpy

 

2 Responses to “Getting great reference letters”

  1. Leigh Moore says:

    Thanks for your customary on-the-mark advice, Lee!

    On the lighter side, I Iaugh out loud whenever I remember the letter of recommendation Janet Rapelye (Princeton) quoted as one of her most memorable.

    Teacher: “Howard appears to be both intelligent and amiable. He is neither.”

    It looks like you’ll address the art of deciding on the best teacher to ask next week. Poor Howard should have had your counsel.

    • Lee Bierer says:

      Thanks Leigh – yes, I’m writing next week’s column as we speak! Glad you found it helpful. Poor Howard still probably went on to be successful somewhere else!

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